The relationship between men and women has always been complicated and sometimes even a really loving relationship cannot survive if people chose their personal longing as a priority. No matter how strong are the values of a man or a woman they should never forget about feelings and happiness that are nowhere else to be found but in the heart of the beloved person. Men and women fight in relationships. They fight for more independence, fight to prove their rightness and keep forgetting that love is not a fight but a mutual support between each other.
If it doesn't kill you, it only makes you stronger. Those are the words that I take into consideration each time my boyfriend and I have an argument. Almost every person in the world is in a relationship or has been in one before. They are not always easy to come by. Coming from a girl's perspective, we try and make the perfect relationship that we possibly can. We are definitely wrong. There is not a single relationship that does not have its ups and downs. If there was a perfect relationship it would be a fairy tale. Believe me =)
People have their own problems in life, but why would you want to put up with someone else's problems. When you begin a relationship it is like an unwritten document stating that you are willingly there to help your significant other when they need it. Some people do not know how to work out their differences in other ways than getting all upset and yelling at one another. There are many different ways around all of that. You can talk it out, mentally and physically change the way you act towards on another, or last, get help from a relationship counselor. (will u do the last one ?i dont think so,haha). Usually most people choose to work their problems out by taking one another.
In a relationship there are many bumps along the way, and differences to overcome or work through. If you hold your head up, think positively, you can make it through anything.Do not look at your boyfriend as just a boyfriend,look at him as a friend too.
p/s :sorry. im doing this as one of my practice for muet exam.in the same time,this is what i feel about my personal relationship.
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